Make the world better for women !!

This post is about something that really matters to me..... it expresses my fury about something that bothers every girl or a women...something that exists but is always overlooked....something that has occupied a majority of my thoughts lately.....


For people who don't know the details or haven't followed news : About 40,00 men had assembled at police grounds last sunday to appear for a police examination. After the exam, they started eve-teasing and molesting the girls of North campus and IP college .No means of transport seemed safe that day...rickshaws,autos & even metro travellers were harassed in the worst possible manner,leaving the girls in a state of shock...it hurts when you come to know that a lot of people you know; were among them...its not that only girls travelling alone were teased but there have been cases where girls going with their mothers were dragged and molested in front of their parents leaving them in a state of helplessness....everything was happening out there in the open and no one cared to stop it. This just leaves nothing at all SAFE for girls.


The most ridiculous thing was that the molesters were our future policemen and if this is the way they will function , India has got a great future.

when the police was asked for help , they plainly said ' Itne saare ladke hain, hum kya kar sakte hain' and when they were asked to file an FIR , they simply refused to do it. At some places where they DID file an FIR , they started embarassing the girls by asking the minutest detail of what the accused did to them...the SHO of mukherjee nagar said, 'Yeh to Aam baat hai'...Aam Baat????? people responsible for maintaining law n order calling it an Aam baat...

So, girls have now taken to the streets, they are protesting for their rights and in doing so they have been beaten...there was a 'lathi charge' at the congress and nothing substantial has been gained uptill now.This is the way things have been and this is the way things will remain if eve-teasing is looked upon as a normal thing.

If the girls can't walk freely on the streets without men staring at them , if our voices are not heard and if we can't express ourselves freely then surely the conditon of women has degraded......Democracy, they say...

My sole aim in writing soooo much was to appeal to the guys reading this post to ' Treat women with Respect ' and make the world a bit better for them .

This is all we (girls) want .

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Ad Infinitum........

I dont know whats happening to me .... i JUST finished a post and i want to write another one...
goodness!!..
Now, i'd just like to tell why i chose " Ad Infinitum " as the name of my blog... well, this is a french word which means " till infinity...." . In the beginning i was quite apprehensive of the name i wanted to give to my blog , this was something that i had in mind but i wasnt sure whether i would be able write more than a post. But , now i kind of like this thing... and i think that i was right in choosing this as the blog's name... it is going to continue ad infinitum...i hope.

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Here goes my first post...

well, here i am .....writing my first post .
From quite sometime i've been noticing that , people have started moving blindly with the latest trends . Take anything .You take Reshamia , saas-bahu dramas or reality shows...name it and they'll give you LOADS of it...
Suddenly you see malls being built everywhere...not that im complaining...but what i want to say is that everything is being fed in huge doses untill you get sick and tired of it and the charm that thing had to you before, is left no more.

This is not how i actually wanted to start...well, ive actually strayed away from it...
So, i was talking about moving with the trends.... i just saw all of my friends rearing towards 'orkut' an online community.... i joined it too.... again, moving with the trends thingy...i found it quite interesting for a few months but then apart from keeping contact with my school frens it just appeared monotonous to me .

After say a year or so on orkut i saw another wave moving around and as usual all the people started heading towards it. Guess what that was.." blogging".... again following that moving with the trends thingy , i also followed them blindly and here i am having a blog and writing a post ...
I want to see what all things this moving with the trends thingy will show me...

lets see how this experience turns out to be...
I for sure am not gonna let go of this experience...and intend to write a lot of posts...you ppl will have to bear with me.

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